While T.J. Holmes and Amy Robach’s relationship is relatively new, they have already gone to couples counseling. On the December 26, 2023 episode of their podcast, “Amy and T.J.,” the pair revealed they sought the help of Dr. Jeff Gardere after having a bad fight. “We can tell y’all that there has been one night that Robach and I have spent apart that can specifically be blamed and attributed to a fight that we had,” Holmes explained. In response, Robach revealed that the argument in question stemmed from the CNN corespondent’s night owl tendencies, which she described as setting her over the edge. “You like to not go to bed. You started making a meal at midnight, and I just was frustrated,” she added. While the two admitted having an emotionally exhausting week at the time of their fight, they still wanted to ask Gardere for guidance.
Holmes and Robach also talked about their lack of communication during such arguments, with the latter calling the former out for checking out during arguments. “I would rather have him yell at me than freeze me out for two days… I’m like, I don’t know what to say, what to do, what he thinks,” she revealed. The pair first shed light on their relationship’s challenges during their podcast’s premiere episode. “Relationships are hard, they’re messy, they’re not perfect. We have fought for love and I can say I have never been happier. I am with my best friend,” Robach said.