Fans have been envious of Ben and Erin Napier’s seemingly idyllic marriage, and the couple have not been shy about sharing the keys to their relationship. One of those keys is honesty. “We are in perfect conversation with each other — we communicate about every little detail of our lives,” Ben told Qolture in March 2018. “Talking about everything and prayer are the glue in our marriage,” he added.
Communication may seem to be an obvious part of any functional relationship, but the HGTV stars take it to an extreme. “We’re just very, very good about telling each other every single detail of every single thing that’s happening in each other’s life [that is] separate from each other,” Erin told Us Weekly in September 2023. According to the Napiers, this approach helped them avoid building animosity. “If you have all the information, there is less to argue about and less to fight about,” Erin added. If you ask Ben, the couple have no choice in the matter but to communicate with the utmost honesty at all times. “We try to keep secrets, but we can’t,” he told USA Today in December 2023. “I can’t keep anything from her. She can’t keep anything from me,” Ben added.
They might have issues keeping information from one another, but Ben and Erin have done a great job of keeping private information about their children out of the public eye.
