I asked TikTok to help find my baby daddy — turns out he might be dead

Talk about a pregnant pause. 

When an expecting mother in the United Kingdom asked the internet to help her locate the man who got her pregnant during a one-night stand, she never expected to be told he was dead.

“Anyone know this guy from Glasgow?,” questioned 8-months pregnant mom Sarah-Jayne Snow, 30, from Edinburgh, Scotland, on her now-trending TikTok appeal.

In a viral video, which has already amassed more than 2 million views, Snow explained that she and her mystery lover met during a brief trip to Spain’s Canary Islands, a favored getaway destination for Britons off the coast of West Africa — during the first week of August 2022. 

“To the guy I met in Tenerife,” she captioned the clip, which showed the mystery man kissing her on the cheek.

“You’re going to be a dad in April 2023,” Snow added, showing snapshots of her ultrasound. 


Talk about a pregnant pause. 



When an expecting mother asked social media sleuths to help her locate a man who got her pregnant after a one-night stand, she never expected to hear, “he’s dead.”



But the mommy-to-be isn’t so sure that her missing fling has actually passed away. 



“Anyone know this guy from Glasgow?,” questioned 8-months pregnant mom Sarah-Jayne Snow, 30, from Edinburg, Scotland, caption of her trending TikTok appeal.



In the viral video, which has amassed over 2 million views, Snow explained that she met her mystery lover during a brief holiday in Tenerife — the largest of Spain’s Canary Islands off the coast of West Africa — on August 5th or 6th of 2022. 



“To the guy I met in Tenerife,” she wrote, in part, in the closed-caption of the clip, which featured photo of the man kissing her on the cheek. “You’re going to be a dad in April 2023,” Snow added in the on-screen text atop several snapshots of her ultrasound. 



She stamped with her post with the hashtag #HelpMeFindHim — a popular prompt with over 290 million views that, in separate instances, has inspired TikTok users to assist online strangers in reconnecting with their long lost loved ones. 



But Snow wasn’t so lucky. 



Rather than offering up the expecting father’s whereabouts, cheeky TikTokers offered their condolences, claiming the guy’s name is Steve and that he’d just been tragically killed. 



“Rip Steve, terrible car crash,” a virtual mourner commented. 



“Steve!! He died 2 weeks ago unfortunately,”  said another. 



“One of my last conversations with Steve was him telling me he can't wait to be a Dad one day. Fly high buddy, gone too soon.”



However, despite the seemingly sincere sentiments, one commentator let it slip that their sympathies were likely part of a shady ruse to protect the unknown man from being saddled with an unplanned baby and, eventually, child support. 



“It’s a joke… his name’s probably not Steve and he’s probably not dead,” penned a whistleblower. 



And when asked if she’d made any progress in her search for the man, Snow said, in part, “[I have] not heard from him or any one he knows,” in her comments. 



She added, “I didn’t find him, No. But still got DNA testing when my son’s born in 6 weeks so I’m sure I’ll find him.” 



Snow went on to reveal that she plans to submit a sample of her baby’s genes to a DNA network such as Ancestry to find the man and his close relatives. 



Mom-to-be Sarah-Jayne Snow, has gone viral after asking TikTok to help locate the man who got her pregnant during a one night stand on vacation.
Mom-to-be Sarah-Jayne Snow has gone viral after asking TikTok to help locate the man who got her pregnant during a one night stand on vacation.
TikTok/@sarah.jayne.snow

She stamped with her post with the hashtag #HelpMeFindHim — a popular prompt with over 290 million views that, in separate instances, has inspired TikTok users to assist online strangers in reconnecting with their long lost loved ones. 

But Snow wasn’t so lucky. 

Rather than assisting her in finding the expecting father’s whereabouts, cheeky TikTokers instead offered their condolences, claiming the guy’s name was Steve — and that he’d just been tragically killed. 


In response to Snow's viral plea for help, a number of TikTok users referred to her mystery man as "Steve," and claimed he had recently died.
In response to Snow’s viral plea for help, a number of TikTok users referred to her mystery man as “Steve,” and claimed he had recently died.
TikTok/@sarah.jayne.snow

“Rip Steve, terrible car crash,” one virtual mourner commented. 

“Steve!! He died 2 weeks ago unfortunately,”  said another. 

“One of my last conversations with Steve was him telling me he can’t wait to be a Dad one day. Fly high buddy, gone too soon.”

But the mom-to-be isn’t convinced the lost Lothario has actually passed away — and some commenters agree, with one suggesting that Steve’s so-called death is nothing more than a ruse to protect the unknown man from being saddled with an unplanned baby and, eventually, child support. 


Snow, who's expecting to welcome a baby boy in the coming weeks, said she plans to track the father down via online DNA databases.
Snow, who’s expecting to welcome a baby boy in the coming weeks, said she plans to track the father down via online DNA databases.
TikTok/@sarah.jayne.snow

“It’s a joke… his name’s probably not Steve and he’s probably not dead,” penned the whistleblower. 

And when asked if she’d made any progress in her search for the man, Snow said, “[I have] not heard from him or anyone he knows,” in her comments. 

She added, “I didn’t find him, No. But still got DNA testing when my son’s born in 6 weeks so I’m sure I’ll find him.” 

Snow plans to submit a sample of her baby’s genes to one of the popular mail-order genetic testing services, in order to find the man and his close relatives. 

And to critics who questioned Snow about her due date — many suggesting that she might have miscalculated the time of conception, and was looking for the wrong guy — she clapped back saying, “TRUST, I wouldn’t humiliate myself online if I didn’t know it was him.”

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