A woman felt haunted by her history of being ghosted by dates — so she decided to find out why.
TikToker Stephanie D’Agostini, who goes by the handle @stefdog, created an actual “exit survey” to send to her exes and dates who left her without saying a word.
In the recent clip, which boasts almost 90,000 views, she broke down her questionnaire and even offered PDF versions for other users to download should they decide to use the survey for themselves.
The survey consisted of a few questions that she sent to her recent ex, however, she has yet to receive a response from her former boo.
“So I recently got ghosted by a guy who I didn’t even like which was obviously devastating, and I emailed him this ghosting exit survey to fill out,” she said in her TikTok video.
“And feel free to use this at your leisure,” she added, urging her followers to also take part in the feedback.
The first question read: “Please provide a one to two sentence example of why you did it.”
“I just thought it would be nice to give some examples off the top of my head, like ‘you were intimidated by my beauty, you hate yourself, you’re broken, I’m too good for you’, like whatever comes to mind,” D’Agostini explained.
The second inquiry stated: “Please circle if I am more cute, hot, sexy or pretty and just know, it’s just a rule you have to circle all four.”
“Please explain why you did not write in smart for that last question. That’s really misogynistic,” read the third query in the survey.
The last question asked “Please provide the names, emails and phone numbers of at least two of your exes and your birth mother” and that’s just Stephanie “can start a group chat.”
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As a bonus question, she asked that the partners select a form of compensation for her time during the relationship.
“So you could opt for something simple, like sending me your passwords for various streaming services and your social security number,” she said.
She then added a joke: “Buy my mom a condo in Florida. With a pool, don’t skip out.”
“And last but certainly not least, making me your muse and dedicating your life to winning me back,” she said.
D’Agostini further noted: “So that can be anything from like using my voicemails in a rap song, cutting your ear off and sending it to me, publicly referring to me as ‘the one that got away’, I don’t know. Or just like describing me as thin in a novel.”
Social media users applauded D’Agostini’s endeavor and even chimed in with their own experiences of being ghosted.
One person revealed that she too made a survey and sent it to all of her exes.
“Oh my God, this is possibly the most incredible thing I’ve ever seen,” another wrote.
“Sending this to every single ex, thanks bestie,” a commenter gushed.
“I’m going to intentionally date someone and pray they ghost me so I can do this 😂😂,” another said.
