Who gets to keep an engagement ring if a romance turns sour and the wedding is called off?

That’s what the highest court in the US state of Massachusetts was asked to decide with a $US70,000 ($106,000) ring at the center of the dispute.

The court ultimately ruled an engagement ring must be returned to the person who purchased it, ending a six-decade state rule that required judges to try to identify who was to blame for the end of the relationship.

FILE - A jewelers displays an engagement ring on May 14, 2014, in Jacksonville, N.C. (Maria Sestito/The Daily News via AP, File)
Johnson bought a $$106,000 diamond engagement ring and in August 2017 asked Settino’s father for permission to marry her. (AP)

The case involved Bruce Johnson and Caroline Settino, who started dating in the summer of 2016, according to court filings.

Over the next year, they travelled together, visiting New York, Bar Harbor, Maine, the Virgin Islands and Italy.

Johnson paid for the vacations and also gave Settino jewellery, clothing, shoes and handbags.

Eventually, Johnson bought a $106,000 diamond engagement ring and in August 2017 asked Settino’s father for permission to marry her.

Two months later, he also bought two wedding bands for about $US3700 ($5622).

Johnson said he felt like after that Settino became increasingly critical and unsupportive, including berating him and not accompanying him to treatments when he was diagnosed with prostate cancer, according to court filings.

At some point Johnson looked at Settino’s cell phone and discovered a message from her to a man he didn’t know.

“My Bruce is going to be in Connecticut for three days. I need some playtime,” the message read.

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An appeals court found Johnson should get the ring. (Getty)

He also found messages from the man, including a voicemail in which the man referred to Settino as “cupcake” and said they didn’t see enough of each other.

Settino has said the man was just a friend.

Johnson ended the engagement. But ownership of the ring remained up in the air.

A trial judge initially concluded Settino was entitled to keep the engagement ring, reasoning that Johnson “mistakenly thought Settino was cheating on him and called off the engagement.”

An appeals court found Johnson should get the ring.

In September, the case landed before the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court, which ultimately ruled that Johnson should keep the ring.

In their ruling the justices said the case raised the question of whether the issue of “who is at fault” should continue to govern the rights to engagement rings when the wedding doesn’t happen.

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More than six decades ago, the court found that an engagement ring is generally understood to be a conditional gift and determined that the person who gives it can get it back after a failed engagement, but only if that person was “without fault.”

“We now join the modern trend adopted by the majority of jurisdictions that have considered the issue and retire the concept of fault in this context,” the justices wrote in Friday’s ruling.

“Where, as here, the planned wedding does not ensue and the engagement is ended, the engagement ring must be returned to the donor regardless of fault.”

Johnson’s lawyer, Stephanie Taverna Siden, welcomed the ruling.

“We are very pleased with the court’s decision today. It is a well-reasoned, fair and just decision and moves Massachusetts law in the right direction,” Siden said.

A lawyer for Settino did not immediately respond to an email seeking comment.

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