The answer is quite simple: you will get them back if you believe in the universe. But that’s not the only prerequisite for it to work.
You also need to be 100% sure that this is what you want. I know what you must be thinking right now: you wouldn’t be here if you weren’t sure.
But trust me when I tell you that sometimes we think we know what we want. And after our desires don’t come true and we delve deep into our unconscious, we realize that our energy was actually blocking that person from re-emerging.
Why? Well, because we never really wanted them.
You tried everything – called them, ignored them, didn’t sleep, didn’t eat, watched their social media, talked about them, tried not to talk about them… but nothing worked.
Your ex is not coming back. And what’s worse, you haven’t beaten them either.
Well, that’s why I’m here – to end your suffering. If you follow my instructions carefully, I will teach you how to manifest your ex back using the law of attraction.
How to get your ex back:
Here is a step-by-step guide on getting your ex back:
1. Let them go
I’m sure this was not what you expected to hear, but guess what? The way to get back together with an ex is to let them go. Yes, you heard right. Your manifestation process can’t start on the right foot as long as you’re holding on to your ex.
Let’s be honest – all you do is think about your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Truth be told, you’re pretty obsessed with them.
You think of all the could-have-beens and should-have-beens, replay your entire relationship back and forth in your head, remember the first time you met, and most importantly, you’re overwhelmed with fear that they’ll never come back to you.
These are all limiting beliefs, and they aren’t any good for your manifestation techniques. That is why you should master the art of letting go before you manifest love with them again.
Do your best to forget that your ex-partner ever existed in your life. I know it’s hard, but do your best to stop thinking about them and, most importantly, to stop expecting them back.
No-contact rule
Letting go includes the no contact rule. It means that you’re not allowed to call your ex, text them, ask your mutual friends about them, or even stalk their social media.
You’re not using the no-contact rule to make them chase you. You’re not doing it to make them realize that they’ve actually lost you.
Even though this is likely to happen, it’s not your primary goal. What you want is to free your energy from this specific person.
2. Let your ego go
The next thing that’s preventing you from manifesting your ex back is your ego. That is also something you have to let go of as soon as possible.
Your insecurities are holding you back. You’re not worth any less for wanting them back. So, what if they dumped you?
Does that really matter? Forget about getting even. Forget about proving a point to them, and stop trying to make them chase you.
Forget about your jealousy and their new partner. Even if they’re are in a new realtionship it’s just part of their journey that will bring them back to you.
These are all negative beliefs you have to get rid of.
Besides, none of this is important. The only thing that matters is for you two to be happy in the end. Once you understand that, you’ll overcome your ego and be ready to continue your journey.
3. The Whisper Method
Imagine him sleeping next to you in your bed while you are lying there alone. Close your eyes and imagine their name on your phone screen. Imagine being asked for a second chance.
If you need something to inspire you, pay attention to the loving relationships around you. Instead of focusing on all the heartbreak and breakups, look for the success stories. Take a look at couples who managed to get back together after separation and see yourself and your ex in them.
4. Positive affirmations
For the law of attraction to work, you have to get rid of all the negative thoughts and negative emotions that have been weighing you down. Instead, it’s time to replace them with positive energy and positive thoughts.
The best way to achieve this is with the help of positive affirmations.
For starters, take a deep breath. Stand in front of the mirror, and verbalize everything you want to happen.
“My ex want me back .”
“They still love me”
“We will have a healthy relationship.”
“I’m their soulmate”
“They are thinking about me in their new relationship.”
“I still take first place in their heart.”
Saying these sentences to yourself might look foolish at first, but trust me when I tell you, it works. You can even get yourself a journal and write everything down.
5. Positive visualization
Another way to surround yourself with positive energy is through visualization. It’s time to picture yourself back together with your ex.
Forget about this little fight and separation period. Instead, just visualize you two happier than ever.
Be as realistic as possible when it comes to this visualization. Picture the two of you in possible and real situations.
Picture them sleeping next to you in your bed while you’re lying there alone. Close your eyes and visualize their name on your phone display. Picture them asking you for a second chance.
If you need something to inspire you, pay attention to the loving relationships around you. Instead of focusing on all the heartbreaks and breakups, search for success stories. Look at the couples who managed to reunite after being separated and see you and your ex in them.
6. Your spiritual journey
So you still expect your manifestation to finally pay off. You’ve gone through the entire step-by-step guide and done everything right, so you can’t help but wonder what’s taking them so long.
Well, this is another lesson you have to learn on this journey: the lesson of patience. Trust me, as long as you are anxious and nervous about their return, it won’t happen.
Remember what I told you at the beginning: you have to learn how to let go!
7. Self-love
Here’s a piece of relationship advice you don’t want but desperately need: If you want a healthy relationship with another human being, you have to build a healthy relationship with yourself in the first place.
So instead of focusing on your flaws and doing your best to change to fit society’s standards, master the art of self-love. You have to learn to love all parts of yourself, including your imperfections.
Of course, you’re allowed to change the things you don’t like about yourself. But make sure those are the things YOU want to change about yourself – not the things others want to change.
Now that you’re single, you have all the time in the world to work on yourself. This is a unique opportunity to finally become the best version of yourself and the person you were meant to be all along.
Once you learn how to respect and love yourself, you’ll set the same standards for whoever comes into your life. You’ll realize your worth, and you’ll never settle for less.
8. Don’t be impatient
When you’re trying to figure out how to manifest your ex back, you want it to happen as soon as possible. Whether you like to admit it or not, you’ve been dying to get back together with them, and you can’t wait a second longer for that to happen.
So, you keep on expecting your manifestation to finally pay off. You’ve followed the entire step-by-step guide, and you did everything right, so you can’t help but wonder what is taking them so long.
Well, this is another lesson you have to learn on this journey: the lesson of patience. Trust me, as long as you’re anxious and nervous about their return, it won’t happen.
Remember what I told you in the beginning: you must learn how to let go!
9. Trust the process
return means you are still obsessed with them and that is not good either. Instead, you should train yourself this way to feel yourself.
First, let’s get one thing straight: you won’t be spending all of your time practicing manifestation techniques. Don’t forget that you have to focus on yourself too.
So the next time you finish visualizing, affirming, or whispering, tell yourself it worked. Don’t think about every possible situation, and most importantly, don’t obsess over the worst case scenario.
Know that your spiritual side is so powerful that there is no way your manifestation will not work. Feel their presence, see them coming back to you, and let it go.
Let the hopes and thoughts go. Go about your day as usual because why worry about something you know is going to happen?
1O. Stay away from negative influences
How to Get Your Ex Back in 15 Effective Steps
The answer is quite simple: you will get them back if you believe in the universe. But that’s not the only prerequisite for it to work.
You also need to be 100% sure that this is what you want. I know what you must be thinking right now: you wouldn’t be here if you weren’t sure.
But trust me when I tell you that sometimes we think we know what we want. And after our desires don’t come true and we delve deep into our unconscious, we realize that our energy was actually blocking that person from re-emerging.
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Why? Well, because we never really wanted them.
You tried everything – called them, ignored them, didn’t sleep, didn’t eat, watched their social media, talked about them, tried not to talk about them… but nothing worked.
Your ex is not coming back. And what’s worse, you haven’t beaten them either.
Well, that’s why I’m here – to end your suffering. If you follow my instructions carefully, I will teach you how to manifest your ex back using the law of attraction.
How to get your ex back:
point at them and stop trying to get them to chase you.
Forget about your jealousy and their new partner. Even if they are in a new relationship, it is only part of their journey that will bring them back to you.
These are all negative beliefs that you need to get rid of.
Besides, none of that matters. All that matters is that you two are happy in the end. Once you understand this, you will overcome your ego and be ready to continue on your journey.
3. The Whisper Method
Imagine him sleeping next to you in your bed while you are lying there alone. Close your eyes and imagine their name on your phone screen. Imagine being asked for a second chance.
If you need something to inspire you, pay attention to the loving relationships around you. Instead of focusing on all the heartbreak and breakups, look for the success stories. Take a look at couples who managed to get back together after separation and see yourself and your ex in them.
6. Your spiritual journey
So you still expect your manifestation to finally pay off. You’ve gone through the entire step-by-step guide and done everything right, so you can’t help but wonder what’s taking them so long.
Well, this is another lesson you have to learn on this journey: the lesson of patience. Trust me, as long as you are anxious and nervous about their return, it won’t happen.
Remember what I told you at the beginning: you have to learn how to let go!
9. Trust the process
return means you are still obsessed with them and that is not good either. Instead, you should train yourself this way to feel yourself.
First, let’s get one thing straight: you won’t be spending all of your time practicing manifestation techniques. Don’t forget that you have to focus on yourself too.
So the next time you finish visualizing, affirming, or whispering, tell yourself it worked. Don’t think about every possible situation, and most importantly, don’t obsess over the worst case scenario.
Know that your spiritual side is so powerful that there is no way your manifestation will not work. Feel their presence, see them coming back to you, and let it go.
Let the hopes and thoughts go. Go about your day as usual because why worry about something you know is going to happen?
10. Stay away from negative influences
When you’re trying to figure out how to manifest your ex back, I’m sure you keep thinking about the ways they should change to fit into your life better. And I’m sure you both could use some relationship coaching once you do get back together.
But have you ever thought of the possibility that you two are separated because you’re the one who has to work on your partnership skills? What can you do to become a better partner in the future?
While you’re evaluating your relationship, why wouldn’t you reevaluate your mistakes as well? Remember – disregard your ego in the process and do whatever is best for your relationship. This is the only way you can hope your ex has also made progress.
Only when you both finish the process and become better partners will the Universe allow you to reunite.
It will only make you doubt yourself. You stop trusting the process and lose faith in the Universe.
Do you see why it is better to stay away from negative people or at least not share your plans with them?
11. Practice gratitude
One of the worst things you can do is focus on things and people you don’t have. Yes, this also applies to situations where you are trying to manifest someone who is not around.
Instead of constantly thinking about your ex and everything you miss about him, shift your focus to what you have in your life. The universe needs to see that you are grateful for all that has been given to you.
If you practice gratitude, you will receive even more. And most importantly, you will eventually get your ex back.
Start by writing a gratitude journal. Write down everything you are grateful for at the end of each day.
Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be anything out of the ordinary. You should be grateful for the seemingly little things (which are actually the biggest), for the things you probably take for granted.
Be grateful for a roof over your head, for eating your favorite meal today, or for the last good night’s sleep.
12. Become the ideal partner
When you’re trying to figure out how to get your ex back, I’m sure you’re still thinking about how they should change to better fit into your life. And I’m sure you both could use some relationship coaching once you get back together.
But have you ever thought about the possibility that the two of you will split up because you are the one who needs to work on your partnering skills? What can you do to become a better partner in the future?
When you evaluate your relationship, why not also evaluate your mistakes? Remember – don’t take your ego into consideration and do what’s best for your relationship. This is the only way you can hope that your ex has also made progress.
13. Stay away from hate
The only way to get a specific person back is to send them positive energy and vibe. Yes, you can still do this, even though you’re following the no-contact rule.
I’m not saying you should text or call them. It will be enough to have happy thoughts about them. Send these thoughts into the Universe, and be certain that they will get it.
Most importantly, send them all the love you have. This means that you have to get rid of hate, resentment, and grudges.
I assume that this person has done you harm. They broke your heart when they left. But what’s the point of wanting them back if you still hold on to these negative emotions?
Instead of plotting revenge, find the strength in yourself to forgive them. After all, you need a clean slate when they do come back, don’t you?
How Do You Know If Your Ex Is Manifesting You?
But what if the tables are turned? What if your ex has been manifesting you all along? Here are the signs they are:
1. They appear in your dreams
The first sign your ex is manifesting you is the fact that you keep dreaming about them. You don’t really think about them during the day, but as soon as the night comes, they start haunting you.
Well, this is happening because they’re somewhere far away from you, wide awake, thinking about you. Maybe they’re not deliberately or consciously manifesting you, but one thing is for sure: they can’t get you out of their head.
2. You keep seeing angel numbers
If you keep seeing repetitive numbers, such as 111, 222, 333, 444, 555, 666, and so on, wherever you look, that’s no coincidence. And lately, that’s exactly what’s been happening.
You look at phone numbers, the time, or license plates, and you keep seeing the same sequence of numbers. If you’re not into spirituality, you have no clue that these are actually angel numbers.
Your guardian angel is trying to tell you that your twin flame reunion is approaching. And it’s happening because your specific person is thinking about you.
3. You hear their name often
Another sign your ex is manifesting you is that you keep hearing their name. You watch your favorite TV show, and the new character has exactly the same name as your ex.
You meet a new coworker, and guess what? They also have the same name.
It looks like, as much as you’re trying to forget about them, something always reminds you of this person.
4. You think you see them
You don’t remember the last time you actually saw your ex-partner. However, everyone you run into looks exactly like them.
You smell their cologne or perfume, you hear their voice, you see the exact jacket they always wear, or you spot someone who walks just like them.
This is no coincidence either. It’s just a sign they’re trying to see you. Sadly, they’re having no success, so the Universe is making sure you at least think you see them.
5. You feel drawn to certain places
You are sitting quietly at home and suddenly you want to go out. But you know exactly where you want to go.
You feel the urge to drink coffee at that particular place, you want to go to that one club, or you feel an uncontrollable need to travel to a certain city you’ve never been to.
And when you finally go there, you run into your ex. No, this isn’t a place you two used to go to together – I’m talking about the most random places ever, places you’d never even think to see.
Well, if that’s not a sign that you’re being shown, I don’t know what is.
Warm Up
After wondering how to get your ex back, the next answer everyone wants is whether these methods always work. Does the Law of Attraction Always Get You What You Want?
The answer is quite simple: you will get them back if you believe in the universe. But that’s not the only prerequisite for it to work.
You also need to be 100% sure that this is what you want. I know what you must be thinking right now: you wouldn’t be here if you weren’t sure.
But trust me when I tell you that sometimes we think we know what we want. And after our desires don’t come true and we delve deep into our unconscious, we realize that our energy was actually blocking that person from re-emerging.
Why? Well, because we never really wanted them.
