‘I’m built like SpongeBob’: Man allegedly sought sex from 13-year-old on Facebook — but it was really an undercover cop

James Raber at the Randolph County, Indiana, Jail

Background: Randolph County Jail in Winchester, Indiana (Google Maps). Inset: James Raber (Randolph County Sheriff’s Department).

An Indiana man was allegedly conned by police into believing an undercover officer was a 13-year-old girl, with the man reportedly requesting all manner of sexual acts and describing himself as “built like SpongeBob.”

James A. Raber, 63, was charged in Randolph County Circuit on May 29 with attempted child molestation and child solicitation.

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Communication between the Randolph County Sheriff’s Department deputy and Raber began on the evening of May 8 after the deputy created a fake profile on Facebook Messenger, according to a probable cause affidavit signed by the deputy and obtained by Law&Crime.

“Guess how old I turned on my birthday?” the fake account said that night, to which Raber reportedly responded, “let me guess 15.”

“Nope 13!” the undercover detective replied.

In the subsequent days, Raber sent an abundance of sexually explicit messages and inquired about how the girl, given the name “Steph,” could “hide out” with him in “safe country,” according to the affidavit. Raber allegedly believed “Steph” was staying with another man, “constantly” asking if she was having sex with someone else and saying he was “jealous,” the court document continued.

He allegedly asked the fake profile to send a photo of herself and even offered to pick her up and help her take a bus down to Florida, where the fake profile stated they wanted to go, but not before she performed sex acts on him.

According to the affidavit, when they arranged to meet, Raber again asked “my sexy girl” if she was having sex with the person Raber believed was the other man, and indicated he was pleased that she did not.

“Now I’m a very big tall guy, 6’4” 295 lbs, I’m built like Spongebob,” he said, adding a vulgar sexual promise: “So if you ever had a fantasy about f—ing … SpongeBob, that’s me.”

On May 29, when the detective posing as the girl suggested a difficulty in being able to leave to arrive at their agreed-upon meeting spot, a Village Pantry in Farmland, Indiana, Raber is said to have replied, “WTF, that really screws me driving to there today.” He at one point messaged for her to not walk to the bar where he was, “because they have cameras in the lot,” per the court document.

Once the fake profile said they were leaving to meet, Raber reportedly left the bar and went to the Village Pantry, where Farmland Police Department officers and Randolph County sheriff’s deputies were waiting for him. They detained him “without conflict.” The detective who signed the affidavit said he confirmed Raber was the suspect when, during their interview, Raber confirmed that it was “his account that he was having the conversation with ‘Steph.”” Raber’s vehicle also reportedly matched the one he described to the fake profile.

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