Who is Sarah Drew’s husband, Peter Lanfer?

SARAH Drew is an American actress, writer, and director, best known for her roles on the silver screen, including acclaimed television series and made-for-TV films.

Fans of the actress, who regularly appears in Hallmark Channel and Lifetime productions, and has had recurring gigs on hit shows like Everwood and Grey’s Anatomy, are also keen to learn more about her personal life, including her relationship with her husband, Peter Lanfer.

Sarah Drew and Peter Lanfer attend the Grey’s Anatomy 200th Episode party held at The Colony on September 28, 2013, in Los Angeles, California

Sarah Drew and Peter Lanfer attend the Grey’s Anatomy 200th Episode party held at The Colony on September 28, 2013, in Los Angeles, CaliforniaCredit: Getty

Who is Sarah Drew’s husband, Peter Lanfer?

Peter Lanfer is a professor, academic, and college lecturer.

Lanfer was born on September 29, 1976, and raised in the US.

He graduated from Dartmouth University in 1998 with a Bachelor’s degree in religion, “where he wrote a thesis on biblical interpretation in apocalyptic Judaism and early Christianity,” according to his Dartmouth biography.

From 2002 to 2004, he went on to complete his graduate studies at Yale University, where he received a Master of Arts in Religion, concentrating on Judaic studies.

Starting in 2004, he began working on his doctorate at UCLA, where he earned a PhD in Near Eastern Languages and Cultures in 2010.

After serving as a Lecturer at UCLA, Lanfer took a job as a Visiting Assistant Professor at Occidental College, which he has held since 2017.

He has also been a Lecturer at Dartmouth College from September 2010 through the present day, “teaching courses on Jewish and Christian histories and literatures” including the:

  • Hebrew Bible
  • New Testament
  • Dead Sea Scrolls
  • Jewish and Christian Pseudepigrapha
  • Rabbinic literature
  • Jewish magic and mysticism
  • Apocalyptic and messianic movements in antiquity
  • Archaeology and history of Jerusalem and Israel

While Lanfer prefers to stay out of the public eye, he is often seen supporting his wife, Sarah Drew, at red carpet events, including premiere parties for her hit television and made-for-TV movies.

Drew even posted a heartwarming birthday tribute to her husband on Instagram back on September 30, 2023.

“Happiest birthday (a day late) to my amazing, beautiful loving husband Peter,” she captioned the post.

“I can’t imagine doing this life with anyone else. I’m so grateful we found each other when we did.”

“The kids and I love you beyond measure. Here’s to many more adventures!!!”

How did the couple meet?

Sarah Drew revealed some heartwarming details about her personal life while attending The Hollywood Reporter’s Emmy Nominees party on Friday, September 14, 2018.

She shared that the duo met while working together in their early 20s as camp counselors.

“We worked at a camp together as camp counselors, and then he wooed me with hand-written letters for eight months before we saw each other again,” she said, as reported by US Weekly.

“Super old-fashioned,” she added.

Drew also revealed how Lanfer proposed – and how she almost ruined the big moment.

“Our first date after eight months of correspondence was to take a train into Manhattan and see the play Wit with Judith Light starring in the role.”

“It’s about a professor of the poetry of John Donne, and the week leading up to his proposal, he gave me a poem and a gift each day.”

“The final one was supposed to be a poem by John Donne and then the ring, but I actually ruined it all because I like, patted him down and felt the ring box beforehand.”

“It was so bad,” she admitted.

“I just needed to know what was about to happen,” she added.

“So I was like, ‘Oh, my God, I don’t know. I don’t know if I’m ready. I mean… I am ready, I love you.’” 

“And he’s like, ‘OK, this is not about creating a perfect moment. This is just about me telling you that I love you.’”

“Then he opened the box, and the ring actually went flying out and almost fell down the boardwalk into the sea never to be found again,” Drew continued.

“But we got it, and we threw it on my finger and hugged, and we’re just crying all over each other.”

“It was so beautiful, and that’s just who he is. He’s a romantic,  through and through,” she gushed.

On June 17, 2002, the couple ended up tying the knot.

On June 16, 2023, Drew posted a video to her Instagram showing the couple enjoying a romantic meal together at the St. Regis Punta Mita Resort in Punta Mita, Mexico.

“Happy anniversary to my love!! #21yearsandcounting,” she captioned the post.

In August 2022, Drew also celebrated all of the marriages in her family, including her parents’, Peter’s dad and stepmother, and her own.

“2022 marks a pretty incredible milestone,” she captioned the post.

“100 years of marriage between my parents, Peter’s dad and stepmom, and me and Peter! Wow!!”

“50 years for the Drews (Mimi and Grampy), 20 for us and 30 for Steve and Barbara!”

“Happy 30th Steve and Barbara (Bepe and PopPop),” she added, alongside three red heart emojis.

Peter Lanfer and Sarah Drew attend the 7th Annual March of Dimes Celebration of Babies at the Beverly Hills Hotel on December 7, 2012, in Beverly Hills, California

Peter Lanfer and Sarah Drew attend the 7th Annual March of Dimes Celebration of Babies at the Beverly Hills Hotel on December 7, 2012, in Beverly Hills, CaliforniaCredit: Getty

Do they have any children?

Sarah Drew and Peter Lanfer aren’t just a married couple – they’re also parents.

Over the years, the duo have welcomed two children together.

Their first child, a son named Micah Emmanuel, was born on January 18, 2012.

The couple’s second child, a daughter named Hannah Mali Rose, was born on December 3, 2014.

Drew regularly posts photos of the couple’s two children on her social media pages, including her Instagram.

On January 19, 2024, one day after her son’s 12th birthday, she posted a heartwarming video collage filled with photos and clips of Micah growing up alongside his friends and family.

“Happy happy birthday to my favorite boy!” she captioned the post.

“Micah you are brilliant and funny and compassionate and empathetic. You are creative and passionate and so so talented.”

“I’m so so proud of you and so grateful that I get to be your mama. Happy birthday! I can’t believe you’re 12?!?!” she added.

On April 1, 2024, Drew also posted several photos of her and her daughter, Hannah, celebrating Easter together.

“Easter was beautiful. It’s a girls’ vacation for us as Peter and micah are on a boys’ trip!” Drew captioned the post.

“Hannah and I sang at church, had a hunt for @officialminiverse sets- made some mini food then prepped for some friends to come to town this morning- then had a fancy rooftop Easter dinner!”

“Love my girl! Happy Easter everyone!” she added.

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