Remi Bader is focusing on the positives post-split.
The influencer, who is turning 29 this week, confirmed she is a newly single woman in an emotional TikTok video she shared Tuesday.
While she is completely distraught over her split from Keyveat Postell, whom she began dating in 2022, she is experiencing more than just negative feelings.
“All I can do is keep thinking of the positive that I never thought that I was capable of being loved and never thought that I could picture kids with anyone or getting married or a future, and for the first time in my life those were things that we spoke about all the time and I really saw that,” she explained.
“I have to believe that I’ll have that with someone … I just don’t know who it will be with.”
The curve model also said she doesn’t “regret anything” about the two-year relationship.
“I learned a lot about myself in that I know that I can give so much love to someone else and I know for me, that it was real,” she stated.
“I just wanna work on myself right now and find a way back to being happy by myself like I was for 27 years [before the relationship started].”
Last week, Bader posted — and then deleted — a TikTok claiming her now ex-boyfriend ended their relationship via text message.
She explained in her new breakup video that she deleted it because she didn’t want to trash-talk someone who was once so important to her.
“This is someone that I thought I was gonna marry,” she tearfully shared in her vulnerable video.
“This was my best friend. I’ve never been so close to someone in my life and I really, really just wanted to believe that this is who I would spend the rest of my life with.”
Bader admitted to feeling “clueless” as she navigates her first breakup but told fans she’s touched by their outpouring of love as well as the support she’s received from her friends, family and colleagues.
“We’re gonna move on and we’re gonna do it together. And I love you guys,” she concluded.
The “Forbes 30 Under 30” star immediately received messages of love in her comments section, including one from actress Lili Reinhart, who wrote, “It’s so hard to wrap your head around someone being there one day and gone the next. Your heart will heal. Let yourself take the time and don’t judge yourself during this process..”
Fellow TikToker Mikayla Nogueira added, “You’re amazing Remi. We love you ❤️.”
Bader and Postell, a financial associate, began dating during the summer of 2022 after matching on the dating app Lox Club.
She previously hit back at rumors that it was a PR relationship and called him “the most supportive” partner.
